Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead by Brené Brown
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
Daring Greatly. Do you dare greatly? Do you dare at all? This book by Brene Brown encourages us to take action in our own lives by first understanding ourselves and our motivations. It's a look inward to affect outward action, and it's important work.
This book came at a great time for me. Brene is a shame and vulnerability researcher. Scary business. Something I'd like nothing better than to scoff at.
But I can't.
Because she makes sense. And I like her. I'm not going to blather on about her book. I'm going to let her speak for herself. If any of this strikes a cord, I suggest grabbing her book. It's really been a great read for me.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly..." --Teddy Roosevelt
"When I look at narcissism through the vulnerability lens, I see the shame-based fear of being ordinary."
"We're afraid that our truth isn't enough--that what we have to offer isn't enough without the bells and whistles, without editing, and impressing."
"Vulnerability is about sharing our feelings and our experiences with people who have earned the right to hear them."
"You know that you are far more than a painting, an innovative idea, an effective pitch, a good sermon, or a high Amazon.com ranking. Yes, it will be disappointing and difficult if your friends or colleagues don't share your enthusiasm, or if things don't go well, but this effort is about what you do, not who you are."
"We are hard on others because we are hard on ourselves."
"We are a culture of people who have bought into the idea that if we stay busy enough, the truth of our lives will not catch up with us."
"Much of the beauty of light owes its existence to the dark."
"Using vulnerability is not the same as being vulnerable. It is the opposite."
"Cruelty is cheap, easy, and chickenshit."
"Don't try to win over the haters; you are not a jackass whisperer."
"Fitting in is one of the greatest barriers to belonging."
"Hope is a combination of setting goals, having the tenacity and perseverance to pursue them, and believing in our own abilities. Hope is plan B."
"Sometimes the bravest and most important thing you can do is just show up."
"Daring greatly is not about winning or losing. It's about courage."
Reading this book really helped me put a lot of my own life into perspective, and not just my present and future in terms of parenting, but also my past in terms of who I am as a person and why I've gone the path I've chosen. I wholly recommend it.
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